Call your children by the names you have given them with love, so that they may live their entire lives and be recognized by these names. Labelling, whether positive or negative, should never be used. Children should be called by their names or referred to as sons or daughters. Parents often shout, “Oh, naughty one, my smart child,” etc. This may be acceptable by definition, but it has a negative effect on this child and other children. In my class, there…
For the past 14 years, I have been teaching and managing a government school. If I had to sum up my experience over those years in one sentence, it would be — the government intentionally ignores educating the nation and keep engaging the teachers in the non-academic task. I Wish Every Parent Knew This- Dr. Afzal Badshah Unfortunately, I have witnessed heartbreaking stories about children and parents. Pakistani society is deeply divided, with each group separated from the others. The stack holders want…
When I first went to university, there were sports programs. Our department won the hockey final, and the teachers and students were very happy. Everyone was dancing, and I stood aside. Then, a teacher came and took me with them so that I could join in the dancing. I had never danced in my life before, and that day I realized that humans express happiness through physical movements and that we must learn how to do so. In my childhood,…
It is important to talk to your kids about the dangers of addiction and the importance of making healthy choices. Dangerous habits refer to the wrong type of addiction. This risk exists globally with growing up children, however, in countries where poverty is alarming, people are massively addicted. When people don’t get jobs, they tend to earn money in illicit ways. The poor economic conditions force them to simply feed their children. Such children can easily fall prey to these habits….
You’ve probably heard the term “one-sided love,” but “one-sided talk” may be unfamiliar to you- Children Upbringing I Wish Every Parent Knew This- Dr. Afzal Badshah The first one-sided talks are far sweeter and more intimate than the first one-sided love. When you first hold your baby and share your love, exhaustion, and pain with them, the same emotions float through your eyes as gratitude. The child looks at you blankly. After a few months, they respond with a smile, a…
As parents, it is our responsibility to ensure Kids are aware of the dangers that exist in the world today– With the ever-changing landscape of technology (Internet and social media), it is imperative that parents and teachers work together to ensure that children are safe and are being given the skills they need to become good citizens. Teaching children about healthy habits, safety, and digital literacy can help protect them from dangerous habits, bullying, and other dangers. It is important to…
By setting clear and consistent boundaries, parents can help their children develop self-discipline and self-control. I have noticed that most parents don’t have control over their children. I see many children, some of whom are still in primary or elementary school, walking the streets at night. This shows that they are not restricted by their parents and are unaware of any limits. Clear Expectations Setting clear expectations and boundaries for children is essential for positive parenting. The first step in…
While running institutions, gentleness is necessary, but the results of gentleness can be very dangerous and dire It has been raining all night during the winter and the clouds are still pouring in the morning. It was already cold, but the continuous rain made it even colder. My house is located on a rough, unpaved road, and getting to school on rainy days is a challenge. I take an umbrella to avoid the rain, but it has been found to be…
By teaching children how to use technology in a healthy way, we can help them develop the skills they need to lead a balanced and fulfilling life– Screen use among children is spreading like an epidemic. They are getting addicted to screens and this habit makes them stubborn and has health problems besides. Doctors say that the screen makes the child enjoy more and more, which cannot be replaced by parental love. So once the child is addicted to the…
A positive personality helps children to be confident, and successful in life Personality is the set of characteristics that make a person unique. It includes their thoughts, feelings, and behaviours. Personality is shaped by a variety of factors; including genetics, environment, and life experiences. It is an image that lives in the minds of others and is what defines a person. For example, when the name of Nelson Mandela is mentioned, the image of a great, hard-working, and persistent leader is…
