I’ve noticed that most parents have an “inherited parenting style” and they only raise their children in one way. Parents do not try to get any kind of training or help in this regard even though no more important responsibilities are coming into their lives. This method of inheritance gives no value to the child. This philosophy strongly believes that the stricter the parents are, the better the children will be, which is wrong and misleading.
Children want to experiment with everything new. Let any normal activity that is not harmful to the child, so that his curiosity is over, and they can move on to the next step. A famous teacher, I heard at TEDx said, that once he was teaching robotics to third graders when a girl came to him with a problem. There was a conversation between this teacher and the girl, which is a model for parents and teachers. Girl: Sir my robot…
If we want to see our children’s creators and create a name in science and literature, then we have to work on our education system, particularly the examination system. The old mother is walking on the road and due to her age group, the pace is very slow. When the distance shortened, I remembered that the mother had met me once for her children. One of her sons was the only student in the school that none of the teachers…
Train the children for chores so that tomorrow they may not be a misfit in society or the organization. In life, we study in many institutions. We become students of famous teachers and schools. We pay huge fees and learn a lot in return. All this education and all this knowledge affect our society but minor. The first thing is that it is not compulsory for everyone to study and it is also not compulsory for everyone to study with…
When you speak to your child, avoid blaming, criticizing, or finding fault because doing so may hurt their self-esteem and cause them to become furious. The retired teacher was attending a program when a young man came to him and introduced himself, saying, “I have been your student and was so inspired by you that I too became a teacher to teach my generation to reform as you did.” The teacher asked him, “What inspired you?” The young man replied, “Sir,…
Peers’ relationships can also play a negative role in social-emotional development. Therefore, it is important for parents to be aware of their child’s peers. Children look less to their parents and more to their peers for learning. Peer relationships provide a unique context in which children learn a range of important social-emotional skills, such as empathy, cooperation, and problem-solving skills. However, peer relationships can also play a negative role in social-emotional development. Therefore, it is important for parents to be aware…
Whatever you say, or do with the children, it is recorded, and they decide once rules are formed in their minds. Words have great power. It can create gaps of hatred and can fill the existing ones. It all depends on how the speaker uses these words. You have probably heard that some regions’ dialects have unique sweetness. They speak in your language, but their words are sweeter. They are really polite. This accent must have been passed down to them…
Children are divided by age and as a parent, you need to know the abilities of each child according to their age There is a famous poem whose main idea is “I am always late”. This is often a problem with parents too; they do not guide their children based on their age. They either keep them under strict restrictions or entirely ignore them, resulting in the children not receiving the ideal upbringing. I was enraged when my son began to…
Everything you do once you enter the home, you are sending a message to the children You must have seen that when you rise up to pray, your 2-year-old son approaches you and does the prayer gestures. A two-year-old toddler has no idea what this procedure is. Is it good or bad? What is the point of it? But he stands up to pray with you because he sees you doing it every day, and it is in the nature of…
Spend some lovely experiences with children in such a way that they become memories that they will love for the rest of their lives. Since I had a two-year-old son, I was worried about how to raise him. Sometimes, I used to get angry, so I started to realize that I should take care of it properly and that I must go through some training. With this reference, I began listening to audiobooks. I enjoy listening to TEDx talks, which can…