{"id":80,"date":"2022-03-03T12:02:55","date_gmt":"2022-03-03T12:02:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/afzalbadshah.wordpress.com\/2022\/03\/03\/serve-humanity-not-a-person-a-true-reason-of-happiness\/"},"modified":"2023-08-16T18:47:13","modified_gmt":"2023-08-16T13:47:13","slug":"serve-humanity-not-a-person-a-true-reason-of-happiness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/afzalbadshah.com\/index.php\/2022\/03\/03\/serve-humanity-not-a-person-a-true-reason-of-happiness\/","title":{"rendered":"Serve Humanity, not a Person\u200a\u2014 Happiness Through Humanity"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Be exceptional rather than altering yourself to be useful in particular situations.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>People don\u2019t remember you for your kindness; instead, they remember you for one poor quality out of a hundred good ones. Don\u2019t do good to a person, but to humanity (Serve Humanity, not a Person). Make it a habit to be excellent rather than adapting yourself to be useful in specific situations. Serving humanity, in my opinion, and experience provides unmatched calm and satisfaction in life. Serving humanity brings true love, happiness, and peace. We should live lives that are meaningful and filled with love and humanity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<figure class=\"wp-block-pullquote\"><blockquote><p>Rather than modifying yourself to be useful in specific situations, make it a habit to be exceptional.<\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The purpose is to achieve peace and&nbsp;love<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/cdn-images-1.medium.com\/max\/800\/1%2AOPvAJXqcS19NcZ2q9-TWjA.jpeg?w=640&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Photo by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/@samantha-garrote-862406?utm_content=attributionCopyText&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=pexels\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Samantha Garrote<\/a> from&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/photo\/high-angle-photo-of-woman-on-ladder-2467396\/?utm_content=attributionCopyText&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=pexels\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Everyone\u2019s ultimate goal in life is peace and love. They achieve it in different ways: some race up the materialistic path and live an artificial existence, while others come to serve, which is actual life. The majority of us think that serving humanity needs wealth, it is not true, it needs a good and loving heart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>The majority of us think that serving humanity requires wealth, it is not true, it requires a kind and loving&nbsp;heart.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">A public servant must have a caring&nbsp;heart<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Public servants are notorious for underperforming and failing to serve the public as needed. In most countries, they accept bribes from the applicant. This destroys the nation. Such behaviour cannot give peace of mind. Public servants must have human feelings. They get this opportunity with pay and authority. Allah Almighty have special blessings upon them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>Public servants get human serving opportunity with compensation and authority. They most have a soft heart and motivation to serve the&nbsp;public.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/cdn-images-1.medium.com\/max\/800\/1%2AWO8ZYmor5TMvZ61G-EAbMQ.jpeg?w=640&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Photo by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/@educarvalho?utm_content=attributionCopyText&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=pexels\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Edu Carvalho<\/a> from&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/photo\/woman-standing-near-yellow-petaled-flower-2050994\/?utm_content=attributionCopyText&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=pexels\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Don\u2019t expect to be rewarded for serving&nbsp;humanity<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Usually, we expect a reward in return to serve humanity. This shouldn&#8217;t be practised. it\u2019s not necessary that serving will return in love and peace always, sometimes it gives pain too. However, this pain is not in long term. This converts to calmness. Helping others is the true purpose of life, so we must continue it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>Pain experienced when serving humanity does not last&nbsp;long.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Positive thinking gives a happy&nbsp;life<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>The person, having positive emotions for everyone, should be grateful to Allah. He was blessed with such \u201cgrace\u201d that few people have. In fact, our peace and success are directly related to our positive thinking. If we are positive, we succeed, otherwise, the alternative is full of darkness. Live a positive life and stay happy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>Positive thinking is a gift from Allah, and such a person should be grateful to&nbsp;Him.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The unconscious mind is the true life, so purify&nbsp;it<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Our unconscious mind is the main reason for the current form of life. Changing your unconscious means, you are changing your life. We\u2019re driven by our unconscious. Our major life decisions are formed by our unconscious. Therefore, change your unconscious mind, I mean change your bad habits which give you pain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>We\u2019re driven by our unconscious. So, purify your conscious mind.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/cdn-images-1.medium.com\/max\/800\/1%2Ahh-8FI9qI-DlYAw_Hv0Oig.jpeg?w=640&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Photo by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/@helen-jovanovich-47482084?utm_content=attributionCopyText&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=pexels\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">HELEN JOVANOVICH<\/a> from&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/photo\/elderly-woman-with-hands-on-cheeks-8909677\/?utm_content=attributionCopyText&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=pexels\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Negative people are always looking for flaws in successful people<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>When you get a good place in society, negative-minded people will discuss you. They will always look for your weak points to discuss. If they fail to seek, they will create but they must discuss. Never take tension from such people and discussions in your life. usually, such a discussion is made by those rotten, narrow-minded people who only work in dreams. They are far from practical life. And it\u2019s also a universal truth that the person trying to let you down has already fallen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>When a person achieves a high social status, the negative ones look for his weaknesses to&nbsp;discuss.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Be smart, not hard, in your activities<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>Furthermore, for a happy and peaceful life, be smart, and not hard in your daily activities. Take smart decisions. Forget the work burden as you cross the gate of the workplace. Devote your every second to the work as you enter the workplace.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>Be smart not hard in daily life activities.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p>Life exists in our unconscious mind, which we usually refer to as our habits. We\u2019re not how we look by our physique, how we dress or talk. We\u2019re like our habits\u200a\u2014\u200ahow our unconscious mind works. \u0670It\u2019s easy to choose bad habits but it\u2019s harder and uncertain to live with. Similarly, it\u2019s harder to choose good habits but it\u2019s easy to live with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/afzalbadshah.com\/index.php\/category\/life-lessons\/\" title=\"\">Read more about\u00a0life.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The writer can be reached via <a href=\"http:\/\/afzalbadshah.medium.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Medium<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/c\/afzalbadshahmanduri\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">YouTube<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/web.facebook.com\/abmanduri\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Facebook<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/author\/afzalbadshah\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Amazon<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrAFZALBADSHAH\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Twitter<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/afzal-badshah-phd-305b03164\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">LinkedIn<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/wa.me\/923006091064?text=\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">WhatsApp<\/a>, and <a href=\"https:\/\/scholar.google.com.au\/citations?user=rBmhtFQAAAAJ&amp;hl=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Google Scholar<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><\/h4>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Be exceptional rather than altering yourself to be useful in particular situations. 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