{"id":133,"date":"2022-03-05T12:34:41","date_gmt":"2022-03-05T12:34:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/afzalbadshah.wordpress.com\/2022\/03\/05\/unknown-fear-fear-is-fear-until-you-meet-it\/"},"modified":"2023-08-19T20:43:39","modified_gmt":"2023-08-19T15:43:39","slug":"unknown-fear-fear-is-fear-until-you-meet-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/afzalbadshah.com\/index.php\/2022\/03\/05\/unknown-fear-fear-is-fear-until-you-meet-it\/","title":{"rendered":"Unknown Fear\u200a\u2014\u200aFear Is Fear Until You Meet It"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Everyone is surrounded by a red circle, and crossing it means confronting him with an unknown&nbsp;fear<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>I have grown up far beyond the age of phones and mobiles. It was the era of letters when the news of the arrival of the son at the destination reached the mother after months. The postal services took months to deliver the letters to their destination. After getting the son\u2019s letter, mum would look for the literate person with this letter tied to her scarf to find out what his son had written.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I mostly read and respond to my family\u2019s postal communications. I went to my uncle\u2019s house one evening to read my cousin\u2019s letter and respond. The dog attacked me as soon as I arrived at my uncle\u2019s home. He pushed his teeth to my wrist in such a way\u200a\u2014\u200athat someone was pulling him, someone was opening his jaw but the dog was not leaving me. The dog\u2019s mouth was eventually opened with a rode, and my hand was freed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/afzalbadshah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/pexels-photo-262103.jpeg?resize=640%2C427&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"kid hiding on pillows\" class=\"wp-image-914\" style=\"width:837px;height:558px\" width=\"640\" height=\"427\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/afzalbadshah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/pexels-photo-262103.jpeg?w=1880&amp;ssl=1 1880w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/afzalbadshah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/pexels-photo-262103.jpeg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/afzalbadshah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/pexels-photo-262103.jpeg?resize=1024%2C682&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/afzalbadshah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/pexels-photo-262103.jpeg?resize=768%2C512&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/afzalbadshah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/pexels-photo-262103.jpeg?resize=1536%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/afzalbadshah.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/pexels-photo-262103.jpeg?w=1280&amp;ssl=1 1280w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Photo by Pixabay on <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/photo\/kid-hiding-on-pillows-262103\/\" rel=\"nofollow\">Pexels.com<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>The entire wrist was in the dog\u2019s mouth, as were all of the teeth in my wrist. So, the hand was severely bleeding. The dog bit me so hard that the marks are still visible on my wrist, but the fear of the dog in my heart vanished after that. Right now, I\u2019m not afraid of dogs. I\u2019ve never been bitten by a snake, and I\u2019ve heard they\u2019re not as annoying as dogs when it comes to biting. But I am cautious of it and do not trust it. I\u2019m aware that dogs bite for no apparent reason, and that if he finds that this person is afraid of him, he will undoubtedly bite. The dog may bite me now, but I have no fear in my heart. I don\u2019t change my path due to the dog.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image is-resized\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/cdn-images-1.medium.com\/max\/800\/1%2AHC6WwS-QGKoh-dllQNi97g.jpeg?resize=640%2C800&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" style=\"width:838px;height:1048px\" width=\"640\" height=\"800\"\/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Photo by <a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/@andrewshelley?utm_content=attributionCopyText&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=pexels\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">andrew shelley<\/a> from&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/photo\/man-in-black-helmet-climbing-on-rock-8454446\/?utm_content=attributionCopyText&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_source=pexels\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Pexels<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>There is a psychological weakness of man in it. Man is afraid of many unknown things. If he goes through these situations, he thinks that no, my fear was probably too much. I could have reduced or eliminated this fear or danger. This fear is actually a veil between certain situations. The same veil exists among individuals. I\u2019m not pointing out the fear, I\u2019m talking about respect between individuals. However, sometimes they lose this respect, which loses the veil and the relationship of respect fades always.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Everyone has limits in their life. Connected people know exactly how close I can get. What can I discuss and what are the points that my friend does not like to discuss. Everyone should know the red lines of everyone related to them. Because, after crossing this red line, you can no longer go to the same place as before. Therefore, be cautious in your relationship and be in a normal position to enjoy life, because fear is fear until someone meets it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/afzalbadshah.com\/index.php\/category\/life-lessons\/\" title=\"\">Read more about life.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The writer can be reached via <a href=\"http:\/\/afzalbadshah.medium.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Medium<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/c\/afzalbadshahmanduri\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">YouTube<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/web.facebook.com\/abmanduri\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Facebook<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/author\/afzalbadshah\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Amazon<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrAFZALBADSHAH\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Twitter<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/afzal-badshah-phd-305b03164\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">LinkedIn<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/wa.me\/923006091064?text=\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">WhatsApp<\/a>, and <a href=\"https:\/\/scholar.google.com.au\/citations?user=rBmhtFQAAAAJ&amp;hl=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Google Scholar<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Everyone is surrounded by a red circle, and crossing it means confronting him with an unknown&nbsp;fear I have grown up far beyond the age of phones and mobiles. 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